My responses are in parentheses....
Question: "Tell me when you first made the decision to leave the marriage to Kathy?"
Answer:" It was a series-- I mean it was--there's not one particular date. The Christmas before, which would be what, Dec. 2012 or --that range, say six months before, had a lot of discussions with my mother over it, who went back and stayed in a marriage that she regrets, and I think that was-- that did impact on me, to still try throughout the spring, wavering back and forth about this, just undecided. It was a huge decision." (Thats right, blame your mom)
Question "When did you first start thinking about it?"
Answer "A couple of years ago she asked me if I wanted a divorce and she could handle life without me.." (I wanted to say Object, but I could not. I just sat there wondering who this person, I thought I knew, had become. Or perhaps I was just beginning to realize who he had always been and that my trust in him had blinded me)
If you are going through a similar situation please know you are not alone. You have a God who loves you and has promised to never leave you or forsake you. Stand strong and God Bless